Manage Marriage and Non-Martial Indicators

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Is this person ready for a commitment on the path to long term?

Will this marriage be for love because a true friend and lover have been found?

Is this marriage for symbolic reasons such as convenience, or other hidden endeavors?

Has this potential partner been in a volatile relationship in the past?

Does one find themselves currently in a volatile relationship and why?

Does one minimize negative behaviors of their partner by rationalizing their behaviors, thinking this behavior would go away?

Is there evidence of this potential male partner being a serial sire and no a father of babies?

Has the initiation of a legal background check of a potential partner been done? (This is if an individual has absolutely no time for time wasters players and predators.)

Are there any noticeable precursor behaviors; for example, has this potential partner said at any time in the relationship that they could not live without you.

Does this potential person blame everyone around them when things are not going right for them?

Is this person a chronic blamer?

Does this person try to make sense of their problems on an objective level?

Does this person stand for developing economic growth in this potential relationship; and do they even think on this level?

Would this be a concern for one’s marriage if their partner roams about after saying “I Do”?

Would one consider counseling to enhance the functionality of their marriage or non-marital relationship?

Is the planning and effort that a person puts into this relationship adequate to fulfill any anticipation?

Is there any hidden life-threatening medical concerns one needs to address?

Can their partner carry the torch of support in good times and bad-times when their confidence is on the ropes?

Is there a planned budget moving forward?

As a single woman, is there any caution felt by oneself towards fathers who may be looking for an alimony ticket?

As a single male, is there any caution felt by oneself towards mothers who may be looking for an alimony ticket?

Does one observe within themselves the amount of time they talk compared to the amount of time they listen?

Does one find themselves being verbally dominant over their partner?

Under unforeseen circumstances, is one financially and emotionally equipped to care for their child(ren) when the support from their partner is non-existent?

Has one observed any potential compatibility with the intermingling of their two families; their family and their partner’s family, if this is important to either?

How much interest does one’s family or partner’s family have in the future of this new relationship?

Is creating a nurturing relationship with one’s in-laws important to them?

Would one adopt the opinions of family and friends when addressing their concerns in their relationship?

Would a person or couple be able to self-assess and remedy their problems before seeking assistance (such as family or friends) in difficult times?

Will a person be able to recognize “Red-flags” in their relationship Before saying, “I Do”?

Will a person be able to acknowledge Red-flags when their partner tries to dominate their relationship with their family or friends influence? Jealousy and possessiveness could also be a factor if this partner governs what clothing their partner wears.

As a couple, is there one common interest that both could share and find satisfying and equally belonging to both?

Did one take the time to know the person they choose to marry?

Did one consider or talk about the importance of what make s them happy, and reflect not only on their wants and needs but also on why marriage is a partnership they want to represent in a contract?

Is there talk about a Prenuptial Agreement?

Would a person treasure the value of listening intelligently and learning from others who inspire them?

Would one allow help from others to assist the growth of their relationship?

Has the resolution of any old negative relationships been addressed and resolved?

If one is in a relationship of lost hope, have they assessed the pros and cons of that relationship, and can they walk away from their feelings and do something contrary?

Is this search for a partner, something that would create more security for oneself?

If seeking to maintain a trophy partner, will there still be a partner who has stability as well?

Has a check-off list been considered for the things that matter, including lifestyle expectations and identifying living locations, while discussing what is non-tangible and tangible?

Can one visualize the long-term commitment when faced with problems, and how will they find solutions?

How well is the background of this potential life-partner known?

Is this person amiable?

As partners, does either exercise common sense or even know what it is.

Did one consider assessing what would work for them? It’s wise to address any toxic concerns such as anger, rage, resentment, impatience. Don’t discount any risk factors concerning irresponsibility like lack of accountability?

Have any signs of economic suicide been acknowledged, as well as, oppression, obsession, depression, controlling tendency, trauma, co-dependents (such as drugs, alcohol, or gambling), insecurity, or greed that would trigger a risk concern in this relationship?

Is getting married a platform or loophole for escapism?

Are both potential partners practicing the disciplines that are required for building wealth?

Is this a marriage or non-marital relationship based on someone else’s concept?

Does this marriage appear to be a symbolic gesture above all else?

Is there an existing cash flow or other dividend multiplying from any source?

Is there any future wealth inheritance that can be anticipated?

Is one living vicariously through idealism?

Outside of gaining a potential life partner, does one have a support team in place?

Is there a plan to enhance this lifetime commitment?

Is it understood that a contract is being signed, which is a legal agreement between two individuals under the law?

Is there a clear understanding of Marriage Law that is recognized under one's State or Country?

Is there a clear understanding of Common Law Marriage that is recognized under one's State or Country?

Has the living arrangement been considered fitting for both, if they have not signed a marriage contract under the law?

If a marriage contract has not been signed, did both talk about the protection of property rights?

If hired as an employee to support oneself and their family, would one have any substantial savings to secure their family if their employment should end?

Is there any support to anticipate from family or friends in times of need?

Is a person's biological clock inspiring their decision?

In this relationship, who is the common denominator? For example, who has the most drive by the "Higher Ego" in this relationship?

Is one ready for this journey?

Has consideration for creating a "Will and Testament" to protect their estate been established; or an "Advance Directive," if there is a second marriage?

His consideration for creating an "Ethical Will" to protect any assets for the children and lineage that passes valuable information from one generation to the next.